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LGBTQIA+ Abusive Relationships

At Center for Domestic Peace, we recognize that abusive relationships can occur in LGBTQIA+ communities, and our services are welcoming and inclusive for individuals from this community. We provide a safe space for LGBTQIA+ survivors to seek help, access vital resources, and receive the support they need to heal and reclaim their lives.
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Please call 911 if you have an emergency. Our bilingual English and Spanish hotline provides immediate support and safety planning for those in danger or at risk, as well as information and referrals. Our hotline is one of the few in the Bay Area that provides 24-hour intake to help those in danger.

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734 A Street, San Rafael CA
Monday–Friday 9am–5pm

UNDERSTAND ABUSE

Recognizing Abuse in LGBTQIA+ Relationships

Understanding that abuse can occur in any relationship, regardless of sexual orientation or gender identity, is crucial in fostering awareness and support for survivors within the LGBTQIA+ community. If you or someone you know is experiencing domestic violence, it’s important to reach out for help and access the support available.
How does IPV show up in LGBTQIA+ relationships?
Intimate Partner Violence (IPV) in LGBTQIA+ relationships can manifest in various forms, often reflecting the complexities of identity and societal pressures. It may include physical violence, emotional abuse, verbal harassment, and financial control, similar to heteronormative relationships, but can also involve unique dynamics such as the manipulation of a partner’s sexual orientation or gender identity.
Survivors may face challenges such as isolation from supportive networks, fear of discrimination when seeking help, and concerns about being outed to family or friends. The internalized stigma and societal marginalization faced by LGBTQIA+ individuals can further complicate their experiences and responses to IPV, highlighting the need for tailored resources and support that understand the specific challenges within this community. Recognizing these nuances is essential for effectively addressing and combating IPV in LGBTQIA+ relationships.
There are various local and national resources available to support LGBTQIA+ survivors of domestic violence. The National Domestic Violence Hotline offers 24/7 support and resources at 1-800-799-SAFE (7233), while The Trevor Project provides crisis intervention and suicide prevention services for LGBTQIA+ youth through a hotline at 1-866-488-7386. GLAAD and the Human Rights Campaign (HRC) both offer valuable resources, including guides for finding help and understanding rights for LGBTQIA+ individuals facing domestic violence. The National Coalition of Anti-Violence Programs (NCAVP) addresses violence against LGBTQIA+ individuals and provides advocacy and support for survivors. Additionally, many cities have local LGBTQIA+ community centers that offer counseling and advocacy services, along with organizations like the Butterfly Project, which focuses on healing and empowerment through community support. Together, these resources provide vital support, information, and assistance to LGBTQIA+ survivors, helping them to find safety and healing.

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