UNDERSTAND ABUSE

Making a Safety Plan

Whether you choose to stay in a relationship or decide to leave, creating a safety plan is an essential step for anyone experiencing domestic abuse.
UNDERSTAND ABUSE

Why do victims stay in abusive relationships?

Victims of domestic violence stay for many complex, personal reasons – often to protect themselves and their children. Fear of increased violence, threats to take the children, financial dependence, and isolation are common barriers to leaving. Cultural, religious, and social pressures can also play a role, as can feelings of guilt, shame, or a belief that the abuse is their fault.

Shifting the Question

Some victims hope the abuse will stop or don’t want to end the relationship—just the violence. Rather than questioning why victims stay, the better question is: Why does the abuser continue to harm?

Domestic Violence Impacts All

Domestic violence affects people of all genders and occurs in all types of relationships, including same-sex partnerships and relationships where men are victims.

SAFETY FIRST

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